Instead, lean toward black, the timeless and traditional choice. When black is not possible, other muted tones like navy, charcoal gray, or deep brown convey the same quiet dignity. For men, a dark suit with a simple tie is appropriate, while women might choose a modest dress, skirt, or tailored pantsuit. Jewelry and accessories should remain understated, allowing the gathering’s focus to rest where it belongs — on honoring the life that has ended.
