I forced a smile, even though my pulse was already quickening. “Sure. What’s up?”
She hesitated, chewing her lip, then took a deep breath. “I’ve been doing a lot of soul-searching. And I’ve realized something. I’ve been on the wrong path.”
The room suddenly felt colder.
“What do you mean?” I asked slowly.
“Law school has been miserable,” she said, her voice trembling just slightly. “I hate it, Lucas. I hate the cutthroat competition, the long hours, the endless reading of cases that don’t matter to me. It’s not who I am. I don’t want this life.”
I blinked at her, stunned. Four years of grinding. Nearly $200,000 of debt. And she was telling me she didn’t even want to be a lawyer?
“Okay…” I said carefully, trying to keep my voice neutral. “So… what do you want to do instead?”
Her face softened, her eyes shining as though she’d been waiting for this moment. “I want to teach. I’ve already applied to Teach For America. They place recent grads in high-need schools. Lucas, I could make such a difference in kids’ lives. Isn’t that more important than just chasing money?”
I sat there, dumfounded. “Teach? You mean… making thirty-five thousand a year?”
“It’s not about the money,” she said, her voice firm. “It’s about purpose. About meaning. This—this could finally make me happy.”
I rubbed my temples, trying to absorb what she was saying. “Soph, how are we supposed to make this work financially? Thirty-five thousand barely covers rent here, let alone insurance, groceries, car payments… and your loans.”
Her expression hardened. “Why do you keep throwing the debt in my face? You act like my debt is a punishment.”
“Because it’s real,” I said, struggling to keep my voice calm. “It doesn’t just disappear because you’ve decided to switch paths.”
Then she dropped another bombshell.
“There’s something else,” Sophie said, fiddling with the hem of her sweatshirt. “We’ve talked about wanting kids soon. I still want that. And when we do, I’d love to stay home with them for at least the first few years.”
I froze, chopsticks halfway to my mouth. “Wait. You’re saying… you want to walk away from law, take a job that barely covers the bills, and then quit altogether to stay home? While we’re still drowning in almost two hundred thousand dollars of debt?”
Her cheeks flushed. She crossed her arms like a shield. “So now you’re saying I can’t have kids because of my debt? That’s cruel, Lucas. You’re trying to use my debt to control me.”
My jaw clenched. “No. I’m saying that unless you have a plan to take responsibility for the debt you signed up for, I don’t see how we can manage this. I can’t shoulder it all while you walk away from the career that was supposed to pay it back.”
Her eyes widened in shock, as if I’d slapped her. “Take responsibility? It’s our debt now, Lucas. We’re married. That’s how this works.”
I shook my head. “It’s debt you took on to pursue a career you now don’t want. I supported you because I thought you were committed to law. But you’re asking me to just… absorb the fallout because you changed your mind.”
That’s when I drew my line in the sand.
“Look,” I said firmly, “if you want to teach, I’ll support that. But you need to either show me a real plan for paying off your loans—or sign an agreement that makes it clear that the debt is yours, not mine. I won’t carry this all by myself.”
Her face drained of color, then flushed crimson. Her hands shook.
“You want me to sign papers?” she whispered. “Legal papers? Against my own husband?”
“I want us to be realistic,” I said. “This isn’t about love—it’s about survival.”
Her voice broke into a shout. “Unbelievable! You’re supposed to be my husband, and you’re talking about legal papers and separation of debt? You care more about money than me!”
She stormed to the bedroom, then spun around, her hair whipping over her shoulder.
“Do you know what this feels like, Lucas? It feels like you’re divorcing me financially while staying married. Like you want all the benefits of having a wife but none of the responsibilities of being a husband.”
Her words hit like a gut punch.
“That’s not fair,” I shot back. “I’ve supported you through four years of law school. I’ve taken extra shifts to keep us afloat while you studied. I’ve been there for every breakdown, every exam, every doubt. But I won’t bankrupt our future because you’ve decided your expensive degree was a mistake.”
She gave a bitter laugh. “Bankrupt our future? What future? You’re already planning our divorce with your precious legal agreements!”
The bedroom door slammed so hard behind her that a picture frame rattled off the wall and shattered on the floor. I stared at the broken glass, realizing how fitting it felt.
The days that followed were silent, tense. She barely looked at me. I left early for work; she stayed late on campus. We orbited the same apartment without speaking, like strangers.
I replayed the argument over and over in my mind, questioning myself. Was I the villain here? She accused me of caring more about money than love. Maybe I did sound cold, demanding legal papers. But then I thought of the numbers: $195,000 in debt. A teaching salary. Dreams of staying home with kids. All falling squarely on my shoulders.
I love Sophie. I always have. But the woman I married was ambitious, independent, someone who took responsibility for her choices. The woman I argued with last week seemed to think marriage meant she could erase consequences and hand them to me.
That terrifies me.
Because if she refuses to take responsibility for her debt—if she expects me to shoulder it while she chases dreams that don’t even cover the bills—I don’t know if I can stay.
I haven’t said it out loud yet, but the thought is growing louder every day. Maybe I need to rethink this marriage. Maybe the Sophie I thought I knew never really existed at all.