Growing up, everything revolved around Jake.If he wanted something, he got it. If there was one cookie left, it went to him. If we both got in trouble, I was told to set a good example while he got a free pass. I assumed things would change when we grew up. I was wrong.Even now, as adults, Jake is still the center of attention. My accomplishments are brushed aside while his are celebrated. I’ve learned to quietly accept it—until our recent family trip to Hawaii.